Concert updates
Hey everyone

Please meet at 7pm on this sat at Eunos MRT. If you are coming straight, please reach before 7.30.. Come earlier if you want to.. Ask me for address

Sorry but there isn't enough chairs so I've decided to not put chairs at all.. The floor is all yours.. So dress appropriately, don't come in miniskirts..

Yes light reception is provided but feel free to bring food. =)

See you all on Saturday!

Steve just asked me to give them my blog add and of course he asked me not to insult the government.. Haha, no one is going to get this add.. I never knew which sentence I write is defamatory to who..

Lazing about at home. End of 4 mths attachment at BTI. Cool people, nice people, interesting people.. I learned quite a bit, but stoned quite a lot of my time away..

Last Thurs, went out for dinner with some people from work at that HK cafe place at Holland V, supposedly farewell dinner for me, but pple who went don't even know I'm leaving. The food is really not fantastic but well, the service is bad, (it's self order and they charge service charge) but it's the company that matters. The Singaporeans were learning Cantonese fr the non-singaporeans, and the Singaporeans tried to teach the American vulgar dialect phrases.. eew.. and then we went Wala, BTI pple's fave hangout.. well, it's a nice place, quite small, music was good. Shirlene's band was real good and the guy before them wasn't bad either, too bad no one was really paying attention to them.. It was a super smoky place, I went home stinking of smoke.. eew.. maybe we really should ban indoor smoking, even in pubs, though then Singapore will be a really smoker-unfriendly place. First time in a pub, tried some white, unfiltered beer(meaning the yeast is still in the beer). Actually Dave ordered 2 jugs of it. Bad mistake. I didn't like it, Sylvia didn't like it, so he ended up offering it to everyone around.. oops.. I left early, before Shirlene sang the Banana Boat song, but I heard that she didn't sing it after all.. I ought to dump stereotypes out of my mind. Stereotypes of smokers, drinkers, scientists..

friday.. presentation. If I had more time to prepare, would I have drawn pictures of what's going on? I'm not sure about that. My presentation skills still need a lot of brushing up, I wish I had gone for Danny's presentation that day. Took Steve's numerous questions. Well, actually he asked numerous questions, I answered a small proportion of those questions while Dave answered the rest, think he should be more stressed at my presentation than I am. Glad it's over..

sunday.. clowning. Went to be a clown trainee at NUH with hui chuan, her good friend's bunkmate, chang zi, and you li. Learnt to make balloons, so fun.. But seriously I think we were creating disturbance in the hospital rather than entertaining kids.. The heart shaped balloons were so easy to burst, we popped so many of them inside the wards that we decided we ought to pump the balloons outside the wards.. I liked the younger clown. He appeared so much more sincere and caring, really sitting down to talk to the patients. The other one just had a lot of magic tricks, but I guess that's just the way they work.. Then went Queenstown to eat, Hui chuan's idea of course, the queenstown/ queensway area is like her home, she knows everything there..

mon.. didn't do much, went Jurong Point to eat. Gosh. Then went 6th floor to collect signatures, everyone is so nice. Finally put a face to some names that I've seen on emails.. I still don't know where's Prof Yap's office or who she is, but I should be glad that I didn't meet her yesterday.. Last day of attachment.. yay

Complaints

hand hurts now from holding the phone for too long.. and something just happened to my keyboard, now I can't press the spacebar properly. Calling Microsoft to activate my Office XP.. Taking forever.. Apparently you have to call them every time you reinstall it on the same computer.. How dumb.

Since I can't say anything to do with politics, scholarship policies, blah, I'll complain about the school. School don't accept online credit card payment of deposit. And I think my deposit got losts in the mail. Something US postal service is supposed to be quite good at. So I have to wake up at some unearthly hours every other day to call the school to see if they've received my stuff. At least the admissions people are nice.. Just called FedEx to come and collect my another deposit and SIR.. So ma fan.. Yes it costs $44.40 to send 3 pieces of paper to US. Hope the FedEx guy don't get lost and can't find me or sth..

Band. Not a complaint. If I were a J2 this year, I would be touched by what Lynette wrote. I didn't think those 2 words mattered so much until I heard about what Oura said.. Should we have expected so much? Is it better to expect a Gold and Honours would be a bonus?

It sucks to..
- Work hard at something knowing that it'll probably fail in the end
- Have no purpose in life and just drift along
- Have a fixed goal in life and neglect all other aspects of life
- Be in a one-sided relationship, no matter which side you're on
- Do a presentation with only 1-day notice
- Console others when I'm not feeling too happy myself

Thurs.. JC band SYF.. weirdo results.. would I be sad if it was my SYF? I would if I have seriously worked hard for it.. But as Oura says, it's a chicken rice vs duck rice thing.. Judges just changed their tastes this year.

Watched Lord of the Dance with jac, cling, jinxun, angeline at Kallang Theatre. It was fantastic! Definitely worth the money, a blur Arts Central programme is not enough to show you the power of the Lord of the Dance. Even though the stage is small and the Lord didn't seem, at least not to me, a lot a lot better than the other dancers, it was a great show, great atmosphere.. Quite sad that we got last row seats that is like a kilometer away from the stage, but at 8.05 or so, everyone just got up and moved forward to the better seats. Haha, and the ushers didn't care. So we actually got seats which were $20 more expensive.
I still want to be an usher..

I loved the finale part, made me wish that the show would never end. Glad they did "encores", even though no one shouted encore, everyone just clapped non-stop. Hee. I hoped the performers enjoyed themselves and wished that the show would never end too like I did during band concerts.. Went home after that and walked the wrong way, had to walk all the way back. The stadium area is really so messy now that I don't recognise anything..

Fri.. Sunny came to my workplace and I was having an amazingly boring day, we entertained ourselves by playing minesweeper flags with everyone we see online. Haha, sunny's so pro at it. Then driving lesson. I failed the mock driving test badly. Flunked it. Got 3 immediate failures before I even left the centre. Then accumulated 24 points total. sigh.

Sat.. Theory exam. So fun to see everyone again and take the same paper in the same room. Hee. It was at RI junior block and someone was opening up and closing the roof. Yes the roof can be opened and closed. We all thought they were trying to show off that roof. Haha. So every time they open or close, people will go WOW.. everyone except the RI guys that is, and there are quite a lot of RI guys there.. Paper was fine, normal, though I screwed up quite a bit on the last section. Couldn't decide whether to write about Clarinet or about Trombone, and ended up choosing clarinet because the paper wrote clarinet before writing trombone. Haha, lame reason. Hope they give me 1 mark for saying clarinet is a woodwind instrument. Hee.
Slacked around RI after paper cos as I expected, we can finish the paper in 2h and sleep away the last hour.. so as we wait for Shane and "the boy"(I don't believe his name is John) to finish, we went to the main building and sat and talked crap while XM sacrificed her blood to mosquitoes to save us all. And I found out that the YEARBOOK IS OUT!!

Went home rather early and watched Howl's Moving Castle.. finally. The story is not as vague as what I thought it would be, it's just a very predictable storyline. But the characters are really cute. I like the boy, the fire (so cute) and the scarecrow.. but I never understood why Sophie can change from old to young and back to old at different times..

The other parts of the weekend are not so good, mainly because UCSD still has not received my SIR and deposit..

this is way way overdue..

This is an invitation to all those who are reading this blog, 3F pple, CB6, bandits, sec sch friends..

You are invited to..
My concert
Date: 21st May, Sat before Vesak Day
Time: 7.30pm
Venue: My house.. (ask me for directions)
Ticket price: FREE
Light reception will be provided but please settle your own dinner.

I'll be playing the electone which is what the girl in the picture on this blog is playing.. So if you want to know what an electone is, want to see how it sounds like, please come..
This concert is for you, my friends.. Make it a gathering, party, whatever, just come ok? You'll even get free food.. hee

Repertoire includes..
Pirates of the Carribean
Beauty and the Beast
Yu Jian
and others..

Jialing will be playing, so will some of my wonderful electone classmates, who all happen to be younger than me.. Hmm..
So please come for an evening of music, talent, food, friends... blah. Yup just come.

RSVP please.. Tag, email, sms, call.. Thank you =)

Careful with what u blog

S'pore student shuts down blog after threat of legal action

SINGAPORE: Blogs, or Web Logs, are electronic replacements for the good old pen-and-paper diary.

But the similarities end there.

While a diary can only be read by its author, a blog can be read by anyone anywhere.

One Singaporean scholar recently got into hot soup for making allegedly racist comments.

Now, Channel NewsAsia found out that another Singaporean blogger, studying in the United States, has had to pull off his blog.

The ex-scholar, pursuing his Masters in the States, has shut down his blog after apparently being threatened with legal action.

Lawyers say bloggers need to understand they can be sued for comments in cyberspace.

Blogs are popular ways for the internet community to express their thoughts online.

But Chen Jiahao, a Singaporean studying in the United States, might have taken it too far.

He allegedly criticised the Agency for Science, Technology and Research (A*STAR)'s scholarship system, in his blogs.

The former Public Service Commission scholar is said to have criticised some of its policies requiring scholars to meet certain standards.

Chen claimed he was threatened with legal action, in emails from A*STAR's chairman Philip Yeo.

But A*Star has not confirmed or denied the incident.

It told Channel NewsAsia that its chairman was away until June 7 and could not give a camera interview.

The blog was shut down last month.

In its place is a note from Chen, under his blog name of AcidFlask, apologizing for making remarks "which Mr Yeo felt were defamatory to him and A*Star".

He also promised not to mention the agency or Mr Yeo by name again at the website.

Lawyers say bloggers need to be aware that they need to be responsible for what they say online.

"I think that if the writings in the blog were indeed defamatory, then the person who has been defamed can actually take legal action against the blogger. In other words, he can be sued," said Gilbert Leong, a partner at Rodyk & Davidson. - CNA/ir

Stephen came. CL and Dave are both with Lee Dong Yup so he talked to me. About uni, phd, science, research..

What he said..
Have fun during undergrad. Have loads of fun, have sex, take drugs, but do reasonably well in school. Figure out which field am I interested in and passionate about, preferably in a field that's marketable, not like the digestion system of toads or sth like that.

Always keep in mind that there are much more brilliant pple than me around. People who send spaceships to Mars, Nobel laureates.. They will be competing with me. It sucks to be 2nd in science, like you discovered something after someone discovered it 2 min ago. It's only fun when you're the first, like Watson and Crick with the structure of DNA. (But this is not what the IMCB guy said, he said that you can always make modifications to the discovery and make it better)

So always be proactive. I'll be competing with the guy who loves puffer fishes since young and has won a Nobel prize for his work on puffer fishes. I'll be competing with those pple whose grandmothers died of cancer and are motivated and passionate to find cures for cancer.

This is interesting. Work takes up 1/3 of a person's day. Work 8h, sleep 8h, do rubbish the other 8h. So I'm deciding what I'm doing with 1/3 of my working life now. I'd better choose something that I'll enjoy doing.

Other stuff: Choose the right supervisor. A brilliant guy who doesn't guide much or a not-so-brilliant guy who guides every step? Research is not that hard if you have some common sense and don't get distracted by all the politics and competition. (is it?)

And most impt of all, if I don't like it, quit early.

Sunday: class gathering. Went beef's house to bake cookies and cake before going to sunny's house. Beef's house is a palace. It's so huge and classy that we didn't dare to touch anything. Woa, if you want to see a palace but don't have money to go Europe, go to beef's house. It's the same..

Anyway, fooled around, tried to follow the instructions to making a chocolate cake from scratch (I want the recipe!). Didn't screw up much except the mix leaked out of the tin, making this chocolatey mess on beef's expensive table. hee. Oh and we made the fudge too early and it solidified before we could spread it on the cake, so we reheated it. But somehow it just didn't look good.
Baked cookies from the cookie mix. The mix is really generous with chocolate chips, there are so many of them. Wow. Anyway, we experimented with huge intestines like cookies and finally decided to make decent ones for the class.

When we have finally finished baking and cleaning up it was 7+, so we decided to cab to sunny's house. Had to walk real far to get a cab cause the palace is in a very secluded place. =) Got to sunny's place.. Oh wow, 20 out of 26 pple in our class were there. Amazing. Class gathering attendances are getting better all the time. Talked to some pple, AS-ed quite a bit. Guys are as usual talking about NS, but really can't blame them, since they do those things full time now.. Loads of food and 2 cakes!! Ours and a pro yoghurt cake. Celebrating April babies' birthdays. How come all the guitar pple have birthdays in April?

Slacked a bit more and went home. Nice to see everyone again but wish we talked more, wish we did that circle thing.

Monday: driving lesson in the morning. Guess who's my instructor? It's the same guy again. haha. Blazing hot day.
Went Orchard to meet Alex, Weixiong, cling and jac. Alex was supposed to treat us, especially after he withdrew so much money. I hope he didn't get robbed. After thinking for forevr, we went Han's at Far East.. Well somehow, Alex didn't get to treat us. Met xh and lum at heeren and took neoprints. Then everyone started leaving..

Yucks. This is an absolutely lousy post. Won't post like this again..

Visited IMCB. I understand what Dave means when he said they have a real lab. It's crazily cluttered. I don't see any exposed bench space at all. They allocate funding according to the size of the labs so they cram as many pple as needed into the space. Even their workstations are so much more packed than ours. And fruitflies stink. E.coli smells much better.

AS outing yesterday. Went Thai Express and terrorised this really nice waitress. What was our problem? Anyway everything's so hilarious with xiaohui, christine, bao and beef around.. Guess none of us gets to go crazy in the week, so everyone goes nuts during AS outings.. Haha. So we went to Thai Express and queued for 1 minute before we started complaining that we queued for very long and the nice waitress, Wendy is her name by the way, isn't she so honoured to be the subject of my blog entry? Sorry, off track.. we queued for 1 min and complained and Wendy started apologising, yes yes, long queue today.

So we were waiting for a table and Wendy gave us the menu. After scrutinising the menu for a min or so, we Bao and xh started bugging Wendy with ridiculous questions like "Why u all have yellow curry with potatoes but not green curry with potatoes?" and of course "How much do you earn?"..

After we got a table, we decided that we were being too mean to Wendy and decided to write her a letter. It's a great letter by the way, with a elephant letter head and typewriter handwriting. Professional. Of course, it's a ridiculous letter..

To our dearest Wendy,
You are the light of Thai Express (this is the best line)
*actually, i'll censor off the rest, cos it's quite malu-ating, we were just trying to linked all the food that we ate with her, so u can imagine the effect*

We were decent enough to write a few decent lines thanking her. Then we folded it, paid, left it on the table and siaamed, however u spell it. This girl bussing our table saw the letter, gave a "this is so ridiculous" look and gave the letter to Wendy. I didn't see her face but heard that she rushed out to look for us, but we ran away. Haha

Went Pulau Ubin today with Sunny, a Dutch couple and a guide. Didn't manage to go to Chek Jawa as usual. Really should sign up one day with NPB to visit there. Haven't been to Changi Village and Ubin for more than a year. It has changed, a lot. There's now a beautiful jetty on changi Village and there are resorts on Ubin. There's a fence around most of the coastline to prevent illegal immigrants and elephants from swimming in. It's good to go with a guide in a small group. You get to learn about the different trees, birds, whatever.. Saw lots of crabs, they spotted an octopus which I nv saw, spotted mudskippers and crabs in this muddy stream of water. I wish I was in a fitter condition though, had to push my bike up most of the slopes cos I'm too tired to cycle up. Hee. Ow, my butt hurts.

About the Dutch couple. The lady is a cat-lover. She really loves cats. She's a protector of cats. She actually goes to AVA to complain about AVA's killing of cats, apparently they do it every time someone complains about cats in the neighbourhood. Talked about political freedom in Singapore, on how pple who works for the government never give answers but just repeat statements, which I find absolutely true. Read the papers, every time someone asks the government something, they reply by repeating what they have said many times before. Makes you wonder what they hire all those brilliant people in Singapore for. Same with Astar, I would say, their efficiency stinks, even though they are friendly people. I still haven't got a reply from the scholarship officer, don't think she plans to reply me.. Anyway, about political freedom, the guide was saying that young people nowadays express their disapproval of the govt through blogs, emails, blah, basically through means the govt can't control or monitor, hence govt has to encourage public feedback to them to let them know how we feel.

Sun power in a tube!

Check this out! Fusion!

Indignant

I am not repressing anything!! Where did they get that impression from? Nothing traumatic happened, that's why I have nothing to tell them.
Isn't Freud a fraud?

According to Freud, the defense mechanisms are the method by which the ego can solve the conflicts between the superego and the id. The use of the mechanisms required eros, and they are helpful if moderately used. The use of defense mechanisms, may attenuate the conflict between the id and superego, but their overuse or reuse rather than confrontation can lead to either anxiety or guilt which may result in psychological disorders such as depression.

Repression occurs when someone cannot remember a past traumatic experience, while suppression is a conscious effort to do the same. (never)
Intellectualisation involves removing one's self, emotionally, from a stressful event. Intellectualisation is often accomplished through rationalisation rather than accepting reality, one may explain it away to remove one's self. (maybe)
Sublimation is the channeling of impulses to socially accepted behaviours. (maybe)

In listening, the analyst attempts to maintain an attitude of empathic neutrality, a nonjudgmental stance designed to create a safe environment. (hey, that's what the psychologist did! PSC pple are Freud fans. Gosh)

Anyway, PSC is not going to offer me a scholarship and I'm glad they're not. Don't waste the scholarship on me.

Yesterday was the last day. Sad. Mr Tan was saying so would u like to play one last piece as a farewell piece. I was horrified. No no no, i don't want a farewell piece. I don't want to say byebye to the kids. OKok they're not kids, just people younger than me.. I'll miss them. Hope they'll miss me. Hope I've inspired some people to play more.
I'll miss..
XM and Pris and the aircon remote.. and their constant chattering and wowing over everybody.
Felicia and her phantom
Renee the princess's lightning learning speed
Shane's piano! So pro! (I can't do any theory when either Shane or Renee plays.. hee, shows how much I do every week)
Mr Tan playing with me
and the RI guys.. I don't even know got how many and Margaret's smile. hee.

1 week to reply. 2 weeks to theory exam. 3 weeks to the end of my job. 4 weeks to my supposed concert which is still looking for a venue. No plans beyond 4 weeks.

Suddenly there's so much problem over the offer. I insist that my dad be my surety. but I guess it's not up to me to insist..

I'm so absent-minded I forgot to send in the confirmation slip, haha, or maybe I just don't care any more.

Had driving on Mon night, then saw sixian and her dad eating dinner, so went to join them. So sociable right?
Had dinner with Christelle on Tues. She really loves her job, really really adores it.
Stayed over at Sunny's house on Wed. I like the house, very spacious, great view, and her mom makes great food. So everybody please turn up for the class gathering.
Had dinner with qq on Thurs, hmm, I was glad I went.
Met Xu Xu on the way to NUS yesterday, lucky girl, got FA from Northwestern. So happy for her.
Today, end of 2 weeks of Home Alone. Actually I quite enjoyed it. hee.

Did I talk about my driving instructors? Guess I didn't. I had 2 very crappy instructors. One of them speaks Mandarin, English, Cantonese, Hokkien, Teochew and a bit of Japanese and a bit of Hainan something. So he speaks to me in Canton, haha, he's so crappy and I have such a good time having lessons that I don't think I learn much. Haha. The other crappy instructor knows me as the scholarship girl, cos the first time I met him, I was 20 min late cos the PUB scholarship selection ended late. Anyway because there's no radio in the cars, he sings. Yes, he sings to me. I don't think I learn much from him either. Haha, but it's ok, cos the other instructors will always reinforce whatever these people taught.

About work, I broke a pH probe. I was being lazy and left the pH probe in a Falcon tube that didn't have a skirt (ie, a pointed end) stand on its own while the pH meter calibrate itself. Well, obviously the tube can't stand, so the whole thing crashed to the ground. pH probe broke to pieces (I'm sure there's a better word for "broke into pieces", splattered? splittered? splintered? help). Anyway glass was everywhere, the pink or was it green? pH7 buffer was everywhere. And of course I was freaked, the way anyone would be if you're in the chem lab and u dropped a conical flask. Dave was so pro, he just said, "ok, nvm, let's just use the one in the other fermentor, this one doesn't look accurate anyway". So thankful for him not making a big fuss. Anyway sadly, the broth was contaminated again. $1000 worth of RNAprotect, hope it has not gone to waste yet. I left at hour 6 yesterday, which meant that he had another 6h to go. Don't think he went home before 3am. sad..

Poly girl coming next week, share table, share comp, share bench with me, I can't AS any more. Think she'll be busier than me though cos Cailian is a much more organised person and will plan her work to make her busy.

Must start studying. Theory exam in 2 weeks, at, guess where, RI, the sch.

When is it that they'll finally understand that I don't want them to follow me? Come on, I'm going to university. Whose parents follow their kids to uni?

I am no longer the star student. I'm a dumpster student. Think Mr Tan was quite disgusted with the way i play, all the wrong notes, wrong chords, wrong pedals, wrong expression, can't turn page.. bleah. I suck. I was struggling to sight-read a Grade7 piece. Better prac more before my friends hear me in this terrible state..

Updates on my concert:
Clementi auditorium cost $80+/h + $100+ for an instrument, which means no piano. Total will be near $300. Don't think I can earn that back.. So even though it's a brilliant idea, too bad..
Options left: Kope a studio from my teacher/ Rent a studio in Marine Parade/ my house..
And I still need a name and theme and players.

Songs that have been playing in my head:

1. Pirates of the Carribean (not surprising)
2. Bam Bam or whatever the title is, some computer game song
3. Tie a Yellow Ribbon around the Old Oak Tree or sth like that
4. I've (or is it U've?) never been to me
5. Aratokitosaurus (not sure of the spelling.. think it's a made up word anyway)

The pink top is so pretty! Thanks a lot wenwei!

I thought I was the only weirdo who wish sunday aftrnoons never end, xm wish so too and think she also wishes that the TP girl never comes. Haha. Guess I'm not the only evil one. Anyway xm's in sec sch now and she thinks that JC will be a lot less stressful than sec sch. She said everyone says so. Really?

Sec sch band SYF. Wonder how they give out honours. RI, AC, AHS got honours if I'm not wrong. OK RI sounds good, Mr Oura is superb, but AHS? Were they even a gold band? What happened to TKGS and RV and Yuhua? Big shuffle this year, maybe the fashion's changing, judges want a different type of music.

Finally uploaded photos. Link to photos is on the sidebar. And I've decided to finally register for Image Shack, more photo blogging from now on..

Thought I saw Lisa, the trombone girl, yesterday at Biopolis. Didn't talk to her, don't think she knows me at all. Then saw Gabriel, the trombone guy fr DHS, in NUS. Wow he remembered my name. How amazing. Then I saw Mr Chia, the ex-RJ band teacher, today at lunch. He's working in MOE. Don't know if he knows me at all but I smiled at him and he said hi, and I talked a while with him. Hmm, how sociable of me. Anyway I was happy today cos the bands on my gel looked so beautiful (er electrophoresis gel) and I'm going to have a busy week ahead. Wonderful =) I hate the slacking days and I want to go work in NUS again.

I'm as confused as ever, maybe more so, now that I've talked to more people. Having an answer just left me with more routes than ever. The final decision lies with me, I know that, but it's really difficult, 14 years, that's almost as long as from when I remember anything at all. I need help.

On the way home yesterday met Philip Yeo in the lift. He looked tired. I didn't disturb him. Hee, maybe there was another round of interviews.

Writing a experiment report now. Feels like PW, where you have to act chim and choose every word properly. How irritating. Why can't we do it the JC way? Just write the aim, the procedures in 1, 2, 3.., dump the whole table of results in, write a one-liner conclusion. Add a few precautions/ improvements to set up in points form. Easy to read and easy to write.
Only good thing about my current report is that anybody who reads it can probably know what was happening and the results. There's so much introduction that you don't need to really know much about this field to understand the report. Sad thing is it's so hard to write.

I think I need a name and a theme for my concert. Can't keep calling it my concert, can I?

Eating the Merci chocolate from RJ band. Bittersweet. Heavenly. Something to justify those chocolate craves and binges.

End of A Tempo. End of Saturday afternoon pracs that never ever start on time. Too short, our piece was too short for us to go through all that trouble practising, dressing. We should have played both Pirates and Chess. Well at least there were some people who said that we sounded good and it's always nice to play in Esplanade and, even though I forgot to take a photo of me playing my instru.. It's nice to see so many people and take photos with many people too =) will upload my photos one day when I don't feel sleepy after getting home.

Saw this guy in Macpherson Sec uniform yesterday. That school is really smart, the school name and telephone no. was printed on the edge of the shirt, the part where you're supposed to tuck in. So if you don't tuck in, people walking behind you will see ur school name and ur sch phone no. Luckily the shirt doesn't say call this no. if you see it. Wanted to take a photo but thought it's a bit rude.. hee

My concert (yes it's on)
Date: 18, 20 or 21 May (Wed, Fri or Sat, haven't decided)
Time: 6.30pm if on wed, fri, or afternoon if on sat
Venue: Yamaha Marine Parade, Yamaha Plaza Singapura or my house

Looking for guest artists.. If you wish to sing, dance, play piano, play electone, play anything else, juggle, twirl on your head, or anything you'd like to show off, please sms me. Don't tag. Everyone is welcome to share your talent, no audition needed, jialing =)

Wrote a long huge post and blogger crashed before i managed to post it. Sian.

Went Woodbridge yesterday. Got this stereotype in my mind that everyone I meet will not be normal. I walked past the canteen while trying to find the place I'm supposed to go and there was a guy outside the canteen in a wheelchair. He waved to me. That's the part where warning bells go off. But I, being a nice friendly girl, went over and see what he wanted. He wanted to know the time. Heehee, anyway, Woodbridge is full of people who sit down and hum/sing to themselves.

Had a 3.5h talk with the psychologist, shall call her psycho from now on, cos it's shorter to type, she's not psycho in any way. I was so irritated by the questions, probing all into my life. Who is PSC to know about my family, my history, my friends.. I wanted to walk out after half an hour but I stayed on, too chicken to walk out. The psycho kept asking me for examples of what I said. Well I don't remember every single event that happened in my life and when I do happen to remember something, I don't cluster them into categories like, situations where there's a problem, situations where I was stressed, situations when I was most uncomfortable. If I really had such uncomfortable experiences, don't you think I'll try to forget them?
You can't describe a person/ feeling with a few words, or maybe not even with words. I know I can't. When she asked me to describe someone with a single word, I couldn't. I must have painted her quite a negative picture of my daddy, which is so inaccurate. I didn't answer quite a number of questions.

She thinks I'm guarded. True. Her advice to me, very apt advice. 1. Talk to people when I have problems, don't keep to myself. 2. It's ok to drop out and come back half way through overseas study if I can't make it, emotionally, academically, cos an overseas education is not worth me having a nervous breakdown.

I didn't give her an easy job. She needs to give me a lot of prompting before I can come up with more one-liner answers. I'm sorry, but I can't give you elaborations if my mind is blank and I have no suitable examples to cite. She was real pro, scribbling on her pad without me ever able to see what she scribbled. (hmm, how did she do that?) She didn't use lahs lors, didn't give unnecessary smiles, wasn't overly interested but was paying attention even though she really wouldn't feel entertained by my boring life.

Got me darn tired and realised how sad my life is. I didnt' have a good 3.5h. Nor was I entertained by the singing patients around, but woodbridge is a beautiful place, reminds me of a country club, but I wouldn't want to live there.

Dave could tell I wasn't feeling very smurfy and kept telling me to take a rest. haha, he even asked me to go home earlier. So nice of him. So I left early and went PS to play STAGEA. Felt so good playing with it, and my chords finding skills are getting so much better. I could find all the chords to If We Hold On Together, even the bridge part. I'm so proud of myself. After a while, I went to look at some new piano pop song scores. There's a nice book which I like, but not worth the money to buy cos I only like 2 pieces in it. Shall see if I can kope from someone to photocopy. Cheapo me.

Raining.. cold..

Forgot to mention in last post, i saw Janice Tan on the way home, as chio as ever.. She asked me where people from my batch are going for uni, and I didn't know.. shows how distant i am from them

Maybe I am psychotic without me knowing it, maybe i'll find out soon.. Went for some scholarship activity assessment, saw Jeremy Kiu and Man Hon. What a small world, there were only 19 people and 3 are from 4D. And Man Hon drove there. Wow. Anyway, felt like I was in that kind of help group. We do something and the organiser will make us all sit in a circle and talk about how we felt about the activity. Makes me feel that there's sth wrong with us all.. Will go talk to the psychologist on fri at woodbridge, gosh, it's a 3h talk.

I am getting quite sick of this attachment, especially when it rains and i'm freezing, and when everyone i meet today ask me when i'm leaving, I feel like saying as soon as it stops raining.

Now that I've got offers and rejections, I'm still as confused as ever over where to go. And daddy has just decided that i shouldn't go overseas. Darn. My current life sucks. If i see a psychologist today, she'll definitely think i'm suffering from depression and tell all scholarship boards that i can't be a scholar..

Sth happy, maybe i'll see sunny and hon later and maybe other people i know coming here in this rainy miserable day for interview.. I sound like Marvin the robot fr the Hitchhiker's Guide.